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My friend Jo-Ann

By Sheryl Jedlinski

My long time friend Jo-Ann Golec died yesterday and I never saw it coming. Not even when she called the night before just to check in and say she loved me. That was not atypical behavior; we often did that. What was odd was that when I mentioned looking forward to our upcoming lunch, she said nothing, and I didn’t pursue it. Maybe if I had…

Jo-Ann died of a massive heart attack the next morning. I think she knew it was coming and chose to let it take her. This last year with her husband, John, battling and then succumbing to cancer was particularly difficult for her. Not a day went by that she didn’t miss his enormous presence. Her three children and five grandchildren remained the joy of her life.

Jo-Ann lived with Parkinson’s disease for more than a quarter of her 77 years. Dismissing it as “a nuisance” and “a major inconvenience,” she never let it get the best of her. At “5 foot nothin’, 100 and nothin’,” Jo-Ann was as mighty as she was diminutive, much like the subject of the movie, Rudy.

One of my first Parkinson’s friends, Jo-Ann taught me to face this disease with courage, grace, and dignity. Whether serving together on the Board of the Midwest Chapter of the American Parkinson’s Disease Association, or counseling and welcoming newbies into the fold, we immersed ourselves in the Parkinson’s community. Living each day to its fullest, we laughed in the face of our shared challenges and fears and celebrated the smallest of victories. “Off duty,” we spent our time lunching, shopping, and sampling every chocolate dessert we encountered. Jo-Ann will live on forever in the memories I have of her.

There were simple things I had intended to do for Jo-Ann these last few months, but never got around to. Let my regrets be a reminder to us all that none of us is promised tomorrow, not the healthy nor the sick. Live each day as if it were your last. Hug your parents, children, spouse, and friends a little tighter today and make sure to tell them you love them.

5 comments on “My friend Jo-Ann

  1. Karen Handler
    February 21, 2018

    So sorry for your loss Sherril,
    I can empathize, lost a dear friend suddenly, she happen to have Parkinson’s,
    U wrote a lovely tribute, may she Rest In Peace!

    February 21, 2018

    So sorry for your loss! I love you!!!

  3. jenny beutin
    February 21, 2018

    I am do sorry for your loss! I love you!!!!!💕


  4. Barb & Roger Halleen
    February 23, 2018

    After reading your blog Cheryl, its clear you 2 had a special connection. I am sorry her passing, and hope you continue to fight your PD, & be 1 of the best online resources

    • mydancingintherain
      February 23, 2018

      Thank you for your kind words. I feel blessed to have so many long time friends (you two among them) in the Parkinson’s on-line community with whom I can celebrate the good times and mourn the losses. This road is too difficult to travel alone. Thanks for keeping your light on.

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